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Dragonflies – SERIOUSLY?

Posted by on Apr 29, 2017 in Bay Area Psychic, Best Psychic in California, Psychic Walnut Creek CA, Romance | 0 comments

Dragonflies – SERIOUSLY?

Apparently, dragonflies play dead to avoid males. As we all should. I am either blessed or cursed with my wry sense of humor, laced (peppered?) with irony. That being said, most of you know I provide insight on relationships almost as much as I do mediumship or crime cases. The only reason this is important in this week’s blog post, is because of our friends, the fascinating dragonfly. Researcher Rassim Khelifa at the University of Zurich witnessed the female moorland hawker dragonflies literally crash-dive to the ground while being pursued by a male, presumably right after the male dragonfly told her how exotic she looked. I have an active mind so he may have asked her if she’d ever heard of Coldplay because he totally knows a guy who used to roadie for them. Later, Khelifa observed 27 out of 31 females plummeting and playing dead to avoid males, with 21 of these ploys successful. More importantly, who are these six creepy dragonflies who did not take playing dead as a no? While this is not a long term strategy for a successful relationship, or even meeting someone, it can give us a lighter view on meeting someone. The word “no” comes in many forms. I am even a big advocate of subconscious messaging. Perhaps woman can wear iridescent metallic eye makeup to forewarn men. I wish I knew this years ago. The next time I am at a bar and one of the creepy ones is hitting on my, I will do my part to do a dragonfly thing. Read...

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Why Is He Treating Me Badly?

Posted by on Apr 20, 2017 in Bay Area Psychic, Best Psychic in California, Free Relationship Advice, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA, Relationship Help, Romance | 0 comments

Why Is He Treating Me Badly?

You deserve better, but you stay and take it. You wonder when he is going to change. You see his wonderful qualities, too. I receive hundreds of calls every week. Face it, if you’re in a great relationship, you aren’t going to call me. I hear from men and women all over the world, even with being a Bay Area Psychic, because I can offer insights and advice about marriage, dating, and communication on a spiritual, emotional, psychic and personal level. It saddens me that one of the most-asked questions I receive is, “Why does he treat me like crap?” Let’s get something out of the way: I’m not describing physically abusive relationships. That’s not only treating someone “badly,” it’s also a felony. If you find yourself in a violent relationship leave. Period. The End. The relationships I’m discussing are about emotional abuse. Interactions and treatment that are most definitely damaging, but harder to explain why. These negative relationships keep you questioning and guessing in a never-a-dull-moment style, leaving you muttering to yourself, “It wasn’t always this way, was it?” No, it wasn’t always, and that’s what is so damaging. Your guy does treat you right sometimes. But now that you’re deeper into the relationship and feelings are out in the open, he’s changed. Maybe he isn’t available as often as he once was (without a genuine excuse), or perhaps he is emotionally distant without an explanation, or maybe he starts fights and arguments, withholds affection, has simply stopped being thoughtful, or has just disconnected from you. It leaves you asking yourself some ugly questions: “What did I do wrong? What’s wrong with me? What did I do to make him change?” You didn’t make him change. Without a weapon, no one has the power to make someone do anything they don’t want. He is choosing to act this way. And not only is he choosing it, you’re, likewise, allowing and enabling it. The harsh truth is that people can only treat you in ways you allow. You give permission and imbue people with the knowledge of how to treat you. So, if you’re settling for someone’s poor treatment or halfway efforts, you’re silently telling them, “Thank you. This is how I want you to treat me. I’m OK with this. More, please.” Often, the real culprit is a lack of self-esteem on your part. People find themselves treated in ways they don’t like for two reasons: On occasion, they receive the love they want, and they put up with poor behavior the rest of the time to get a crumb of love at some point in the future. Their self-esteem is so low, they feel (consciously or subconsciously) that this is “all” they deserve. If you put up with bad treatment, that tells your partner that you don’t respect yourself. You show him that you believe you’re only worthy of the unacceptable way he treats you … and each time you go back and forgive him, you reinforce his bad behavior. Escaping this cycle is challenging, as your sense of self-worth and esteem get locked up in the relationship, creating a constant search for moments of love amidst long bouts of indifference. If you’ve communicated your needs and he refuses to act or alter his treatment of you, sometimes the only way out of the cycle is, well … out. Move on to someone who treats you...

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Stop Those Pesky Holiday Expectations in Their Tracks

Posted by on Oct 10, 2016 in Free Relationship Advice, Kindness, Making Changes, Relationship Help, The Best Psychic in San Francisco | 0 comments

Stop Those Pesky Holiday Expectations in Their Tracks

Do you have a houseful of holiday guests coming for Thanksgiving? Are you already feeling like a pressure cooker building to explosive levels? Will your expectations get met, deflated, or exceeded? Thanksgiving is still approaching and many are already emotionally exhausted. A frequent and astute client, named Mariana, taught me something last year when she called and mentioned how well her holiday went, even with the usual cast of disruptive and annoying characters. While she knew holidays are supposed to be a fun, joyous series of occasions, she finally realized they got ruined for one big reason: her baseless expectations. What personal insight and courage she had to see this! She planned on things going a certain way. She fantasized about conversations, compliments, and warm laughter. Her expectations were set ideas about what the outcome of the situation should be. They are inaccurate wishes more often than not, and holding on tightly to these ideas can cause a lot of anxiety and pain. The problem for her having these rigid ideas of how things should turn out is that the relatives in her life very rarely followed the scripts she created in your head. Clinging to a belief that there is only one acceptable outcome not only set her up for a great deal of potential disappointment, but created tension and struggle among everyone present. Mariana realized in refusing to release her expectations of how things should be, she was refusing to go with the flow of life. This resulted in trying to control events, which was futile and exhausting. By holding too tightly to expectancy, or being too set on an exact outcome, she influenced her own behavior in ways that weren’t helpful or healthy, either. She contributed to the family arguments. How did all of this come about for her? She realized she had a role in the chaos. Mariana started by unsetting her heart on how she would like the day to unfold. Having her heart set on a certain goal and outcome implied a rigid feeling and approach. A self-admitted control freak, Mariana admitted to being set in her ways, with very little space for flow, freedom, or spontaneity from anyone. There is nothing wrong with having goals and dreams. Life would become somewhat aimless without hopes and aspirations. What she realized is potentially unhealthy though, is an obsession with the idea that there is only one very narrow path that can lead to your fulfillment, and that you know exactly, in the minutest detail, what that final destination must be like. Holding on to expectations of how her family was to behave and enjoy the day, caused her to close her mind to potentially fulfilling opportunities, simply because those opportunities didn’t follow her exact formula she believed they should follow. Mariana admits that letting go of her expectations was difficult. Like many of us, she was conditioned since childhood to grasp hold of goals and ideals, and to never let go. What she shows us is that we can keep our dreams, but let go of the rigid ideas of how those dreams can come true. Mariana’s message: by learning to release her grip on how she believed things should be, she began to enjoy how things really were, and opened her mind to...

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Did You See Your Shadow?

Posted by on Feb 3, 2015 in Bay Area Psychic, Psychic Medium Walnut Creek CA, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA, The Best Psychic in San Francisco | 0 comments

Did You See Your Shadow?

Apparently, Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow yesterday and darted right back into his hole. Six more weeks of winter. 2015 is here. Have you darted back in your hole? Or, have you taken it by storm and ventured forward into new worlds, realms and place for yourself? I hope it’s the latter. Adversity is challenging. It’s unpleasant. It’s magnified with the emotional alchemy of pain and suffering when circumstances out of your control occur, such as a job firing, auto accident, or death of a loved one. When adversity arrives, embracing the human experience fully, including all of its sorrows and joys is how to negotiate your way through it. Feeling the full force of the emotions of the moment gets you through it. It’s called processing your emotions, which is how you survive trauma in a healthy way. Sitting down and feeling the full force of the pain of loss, isn’t a widely accepted social practice.  But, that is exactly what you must do. Feel your pain. Don’t judge it, simply feel your suffering. And, be aware others may not be comfortable around you when you’re doing this. But, this is exactly how you embrace a loss. You’re not taught to be uncomfortable. That’s exactly what you must learn to be. Fine. You’re not comfortable. The next time you’re in a similar situation, you may not be comfortable, again. Admit it. Embrace it. It’s part of the human experience. There’s plenty of company in the I’m not comfortable club. You just don’t know who the other members are. Emotions such as helplessness, loss, fear, anger, and resentment are the metaphorical entry tickets into the I’m not comfortable club. Ironically, emotions such as joy, happiness, and gratitude may also gain you entry because they too, can render you uncomfortable. Learning how to feel them fully is the method to process them. Pushing them away prolongs their negative effects. Fee them, process, them, go away for another six months of winter. Crawl back in your hole if you need to. But, when you’re ready, you’ll come back stronger and better. In the process of healing, your thoughts can trap you. A constant spiral downwards often indicates being trapped by them. Being in the emotion of them is processing them. Your thoughts will restart you, when you’re ready to move forward. You’ll notice you’re ready to move forward and heal when you’re open to the possibility that things aren’t as bleak or black and white as they’ve originally seemed. Things can be interpreted in multiple ways, and once you process your pain and shock, you can think your way out of darkness. In emotional darkness, the purest light of courage is summoned from the ashes of someone’s destruction. That someone is you. Your possibilities lie in finding the light of courage. You become the mythological Phoenix rising from the ashes of tragedy. The first act in order to resurrect the Phoenix is kindness. Your light of courage to move past adversity is enhanced when you balance your setbacks with true, heartfelt kindness.    ...

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How Do You Develop Your Psychic Abilities?

Posted by on Jan 26, 2015 in Psychic Abilities | 0 comments

How Do You Develop Your Psychic Abilities?

Do you ever wonder about developing your psychic abilities? Do you even wonder if you have psychic abilities? Do you think it’s even possible you could be psychic? Once in a while, you may get the feeling that the phone is going to ring and it does. Or you know who it is that is calling and you are right. A song is playing in your head, and then you turn on the radio, and there it is, the same song. Or, you may be overwhelmed somehow, with the feeling that a close friend or relative is in trouble and needs your help at that moment, and you later learn that is actually the case. Are these examples of mere coincidence? Or is there something more profound taking place? Are you tapping into something? Are you, in fact, tapping in to what many researchers believe is a shared consciousness, or superconsciousness, that connects all people, perhaps all living things? These are no longer just New Age concepts, but are subjects of serious speculation and research by a growing number of mainstream scientists in the fields of quantum theory, psychology, and other disciplines. The idea that extrasensory perception (ESP) and related psi abilities are quite real phenomena is gaining respectability. Those who research ESP suspect that most if not all people have this remarkable ability to varying degrees. The ability is often likened to that of musical talent. Some people are naturally gifted with the ability to play and compose music, and practice makes them virtuosos. Others must learn, work and practice to be able to play an instrument even adequately or in the simplest way. But nearly everyone can learn to play to some degree. The same may hold true for psychic abilities. Here’s what you need to know about developing your psychic abilities. The first step is to acknowledge that ESP exists and that it is present within you to develop. Although this might sound silly or trite, begin by telling yourself that you are psychic. Make it a mantra that you repeat to yourself daily and often. This kind of self-talk has a scientific basis. It is now known that when a person learns something, whether it’s a physical skill like wood carving or a mental exercise like memorizing poetry, through repetition his or her brain physically changes. It’s called neuroplasticity and it rewires itself, to accommodate that new task. This process of rewiring your brain for psychic ability begins with your belief in it. It takes time for the subconscious to be able to communicate with the conscious mind, and the best way to do this is to simply start thinking about it. All these thoughts have a positive effect on developing your gift. Read about the subject. Knowledge will help, as you need some understanding of how things work. Adopt the policy you would take with a new hobby. Become involved in it, buy books and magazines, and look for more information on the...

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The Universe Does Revolve Around You

Posted by on Jan 12, 2015 in Bay Area Psychic, Best Psychic in California, Kindness, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA | 0 comments

The Universe Does Revolve Around You

Remember growing up as a young child, and behaving as the center of attention? Remember your parents chastising you for being flamboyant? “Who do you think you are? The Universe doesn’t revolve around you!” Your answer should have been, “Yes, it does, Mommy!” While there would have been dire penalties using that answer as a perspicacious child, you would have also been correct. The universe does revolve around you, the idea has been hammered out of you by parents, education and society. Now, it’s time to take back you power. As an adult, this is your new mantra, the Universe does revolve around me. In order for your life to be everything you desire it to be you have to unconditionally love yourself. You have to accept yourself as perfect, right now, today, as you are. And, you are.  When you do that, you can also open yourself to accept all others as the magnificent being of light they are, too. Let’s not misrepresent unconditional love. It’s not that silly acceptance of yourself no matter how badly you behave. The emotions you feel when you behave unjustly are there to adjust your life course back into that of a spiritual being of light when you get pulled into the human drama. Yet, you can love yourself for your human flaws, too. Unconditional love is that love where you understand you deserve to be respected by yourself for being alive and in the human experience. It means you’re perfect the way you are: height, weight, color, intelligence, and looks. You’re perfect because you are a magnificent being. Little, short, daily repetitive mantras will reinforce this fact as you move yourself through your day. “I’m perfect as I am,” is one that is very effective. On your commute to work, in the elevator, sitting at your desk, driving the kids around, or washing the dishes, by repeating this little mantra it will change your life. Make up your own. Open an inspirational book in the morning and read a paragraph or page. Keep the words of wisdom with you for the day. Write it down and carry a notecard to read at lunch with your mantra. It doesn’t matter, they change the way you view yourself which is where all change takes place. when you’re truly in the flow of unconditional love for yourself, the material things you desire flow to you seamlessly. Why? Because, as a fabulous being of light, you deserve all that is wonderful and good. Make the Universe revolve around you. It really...

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Get a Reading from the Best Psychic in Nevada

Posted by on Jan 5, 2015 in Best Psychic in Nevada | 0 comments

Get a Reading from the Best Psychic in Nevada

Since the technological age has influenced a lot of what we do. It has made our lives easier and so convenient. The internet can be accessed anywhere and all questions we have can be answered at a touch of a button. The best psychic in Nevada is now easily available. Seeing a psychic doesn’t require a sit in appointment anymore. Booking an appointment with the best psychic in Nevada can be done online. The entire session can be carried out online or telephonically. In order to be sure that the psychic you’re booking is legit. They need to be licensed and this should be credited on their website. A psychic that is regarded as the best psychic in Nevada has been practicing for over 20 years or more. Apart from being a psychic, they do other things that help in giving a reading that satisfied the client. They use tarot cards, astrology and tarot cards that assist them. Each psychic has their own way of channeling spirits, predicting the future and reading auras. As a client, you will have to choose the best psychic in Nevada that specialists in any of the above aspects. The best psychic in Nevada is either listed in the psychic directory or has their own website where clients can book appointments and view products that the psychic may have on sale. Things like, candles, incense, oils, herbs, etc. On the website they also give a brief history of their work and their personal lives. All this information is necessary for you to rate the psychic as the best psychic in Nevada. This is a website that you can check out that lists a couple of psychics that offer telephonic or online readings. The website only lists the best psychic in Nevada. One of the psychics listed is myself and I have been practicing for a while. She is also a retired business executive. Her knowledge about the business world plays a fundamental role in giving helpful readings to her clients. A lot of psychic have background knowledge about various working fields like, finance and investment. A psychic that can advise you in useful ways is the best psychic in Nevada. A psychic can help to answer all questions you may have emotionally, physically or spiritually. Don’t let curiosity get the better of you. Get all your questions about life and where you are heading...

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What is a Phone Psychic?

Posted by on Jan 5, 2015 in Phone Psychic | 0 comments

What is a Phone Psychic?

Some issues you just can’t discuss with friends, not to mention family members. That’s why talking to a telephone psychic can be so appealing. With telephone psychic readings, you can talk about your most intimate secrets and not worry about the phone psychic judging you, worrying about you, or making you feel guilty. Plus, psychic phone readings can give you insights and ideas that can change your whole outlook. Sick of how your boss treats you at work? Suspect your significant other of cheating? Feeling anxious about your future? Talking to a phone psychic can help you with any of these things. And all of this from the comfort of your own home, morning or night, whenever you get the urge for a psychic reading by phone. If you’ve never explored the world of psychic telephone readings, you can phone a psychic through the advertised phone lines any time you wish. They’re available 24/7 to answer all of those nagging questions that keep you up at night. So stop tossing and turning. Turn on the light and call a live phone psychic tonight. You can get any type of psychic reading on the phone, too, including Tarot readings, clairvoyant readings, dream interpretation, psychic mediums, and so much more. Getting a live psychic phone reading can be a great experience. In a crowded coffee shop? At the library? Crashing with friends? Hop online and right into a live psychic chat, and no one will know what you’re up to. An online psychic chat is the ultimate in privacy, even in the middle of a very public spot. An online psychic chat is fast and easy, like texting a friend. Just got a quick question? Psychic phone readings. Don’t feel like picking up the phone? Psychic phone readigns. Only a few minutes before your next meeting? Psychic phone readings. Fast, direct, and easy – just the way you want...

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What’s the Difference Between a Psychic and a Medium?

Posted by on Dec 29, 2014 in psychic vs medium | 0 comments

What’s the Difference Between a Psychic and a Medium?

Most people think that a psychic is also a medium or vice versa. However, these two terms are totally different from one another. If you want to get the services of a psychic or a medium, you have to know their different capabilities in order to get accurate insights into the spiritual world. First of all, a medium has psychic abilities but not all psychics are capable of becoming mediums. A medium can directly communicate with the spirits in the afterlife. They act as a bridge between two worlds. This special ability can’t be performed by a psychic. A medium serves as a channel between the world of the living and the afterlife which is different than the abilities of a psychic. A psychic picks up on information. This information is past, present, or future. On the other hand, a psychic can foretell the future by using several spiritual channels. For example, a psychic can provide insights for you concerning relationships, career, money, or love. A medium can’t foresee these things or future events. Some medium cannot read tarots or harness the power of other spiritual channels like crystal balls, runes, or cards. In fact, the word “Psychic” has its origin from the Greek word “Psyche” with the meaning “Soul or Spirit“. A Psychic is known as someone who is sensitive to everything around her. This reader is able to detect, analyze and even work with the energetic emanations coming from locations, people, animals, inanimate objects, etc. in her surroundings without making use of the sense organs. In some cases, she may perceive some information about a human’s past, present and future. A medium reads the messages of the spirits in the afterlife. This means the reader will just transmit to the sitter the messages or signals from the spiritual world. In contrast, a psychic reads your aura and the presence that could influence your future. This means that a psychic directly interacts with the sitter and will not be able to contact the spirits at all. Unlike the above definition, a Medium is believed to possess the different capability. A Medium is described as a person who can communicate with Spirit beings and convey any kind of her messages to the living. Often, these holy readers are totally able to talk with the spirits of the deceased in the afterworld. The actual truth is that all of the Mediums may become the Psychics, but not all of the Psychics can become the Mediums. They tend to use a fresh combination of their Psychic power and Spiritual communication to best aid those who they are serving. A psychic and a medium are different from each other. Just remember that a psychic reads your aura to foretell your future while a medium reads the messages of the...

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Attention is the Rarest Form of Generosity

Posted by on Dec 29, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Best Psychic in California, Breakthroughs, Making Changes, Psychic Medium Walnut Creek CA, The Best Psychic in San Francisco | 0 comments

Attention is the Rarest Form of Generosity

Attention is the rarest form of generosity. ~Simone Weil Take a few moments and put yourself first. What?! You heard me. I’m not talking about the self-absorbed me-only mentality that pervades life. I’ m talking about the kind of self-love that is required for you to drop your blocks, your issues. Can you honestly say you’re in love with yourself? Wanting to be the first in line, desiring to get one of the limited new iphones by standing in lines for hours, is not what this is about. Its abut paying yourself enough attention to get centered, calm, and in sinc with your spirit. Do you stay calm amidst the storm of emotions that swirl around you? Are you constantly feeling like you have to explain yourself? Are you constantly defending yourself? If you are, you’re not in love with yourself. You’re not comfortable being you. When you can fall in love with yourself, when you can provide yourself the type of attention you need to offer yourself the understanding, care you need to feel whole, secure and loved, you can then begin to offer it to others. Attention is the rarest form of generosity and flattery. I have a friend that says, “Don’t buy me presents. Spend 2 hours of your time with me.” How lovely is that? I’ve taken Simone Weil’s philosophy and adjusted it for you to assist yourself first, then others afterward. You’re no good to anyone else unless you are centered and in love with yourself first and foremost. Weil’s life was marked by an exceptional compassion for the suffering of others. As early as the age of six, she refused to eat sugar after she heard that soldiers fighting in World War I had to go without. She died from tuberculosis during World War II, exacerbated by malnutrition after refusing to eat more than the minimal rations that she believed were available to soldiers at the time. This is not what you want to do. By taking a path of self-love it spreads then to the attention and love of others. Simone Weil’s messages and writings did not attract much attention until after her death. Don’t let that happen to you. You are having a human experience here, now, so make the most of the time while its zipped into your body. Love and honor yourself. Offer yourself the attention you deserve. Then, go spend a quality 2 hour chat with someone you care...

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