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Attention is the Rarest Form of Generosity

Posted by on Dec 29, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Best Psychic in California, Breakthroughs, Making Changes, Psychic Medium Walnut Creek CA, The Best Psychic in San Francisco | 0 comments

Attention is the Rarest Form of Generosity

Attention is the rarest form of generosity. ~Simone Weil Take a few moments and put yourself first. What?! You heard me. I’m not talking about the self-absorbed me-only mentality that pervades life. I’ m talking about the kind of self-love that is required for you to drop your blocks, your issues. Can you honestly say you’re in love with yourself? Wanting to be the first in line, desiring to get one of the limited new iphones by standing in lines for hours, is not what this is about. Its abut paying yourself enough attention to get centered, calm, and in sinc with your spirit. Do you stay calm amidst the storm of emotions that swirl around you? Are you constantly feeling like you have to explain yourself? Are you constantly defending yourself? If you are, you’re not in love with yourself. You’re not comfortable being you. When you can fall in love with yourself, when you can provide yourself the type of attention you need to offer yourself the understanding, care you need to feel whole, secure and loved, you can then begin to offer it to others. Attention is the rarest form of generosity and flattery. I have a friend that says, “Don’t buy me presents. Spend 2 hours of your time with me.” How lovely is that? I’ve taken Simone Weil’s philosophy and adjusted it for you to assist yourself first, then others afterward. You’re no good to anyone else unless you are centered and in love with yourself first and foremost. Weil’s life was marked by an exceptional compassion for the suffering of others. As early as the age of six, she refused to eat sugar after she heard that soldiers fighting in World War I had to go without. She died from tuberculosis during World War II, exacerbated by malnutrition after refusing to eat more than the minimal rations that she believed were available to soldiers at the time. This is not what you want to do. By taking a path of self-love it spreads then to the attention and love of others. Simone Weil’s messages and writings did not attract much attention until after her death. Don’t let that happen to you. You are having a human experience here, now, so make the most of the time while its zipped into your body. Love and honor yourself. Offer yourself the attention you deserve. Then, go spend a quality 2 hour chat with someone you care...

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Reasons Why the Best Psychic in Oregon and the World Charge Clients for Their Services

Posted by on Dec 27, 2014 in Best Psychic in Oregon | 0 comments

Reasons Why the Best Psychic in Oregon and the World Charge Clients for Their Services

The world of psychics is considered a spiritual sphere that many consider to be a real gift. A gift that only a few people have. Seeing a psychic can be either very expensive or affordable. When someone goes to see the best psychic in Oregon they expect to pay a reasonable price for their session. Most psychics charge an hourly rate for sessions. Some psychics and individuals who have visited the best psychic in Oregon believe that psychics shouldn’t be charging clients for their services. Clients who’ve had the privilege of seeing a psychic believe that since being connected differently to the spiritual world shouldn’t come at a price. Ultimately, psychics are known as people who do what they can to help others. This, of course, is the main purpose of the not only the best psychic in Oregon but anywhere in the world. And helping people is something that is done out your own free will. Bob Olson, founder and creator of the bestpsychicdirectory.com website offers a glimpse into the world of psychics and reasons behind charging a fee for sessions. He isn’t a psychic but he has studied the field for a number of years. “Some psychics don’t charge a fee for a reading,” he says. We are all different as people and so is the world of psychics. A session with the best psychic in Oregon can cost anything from $25, $125, $350 and even $800! He gives those who question paying to see a psychic an answer that is direct and well thought out. Olson states that it is important to note that a lot of psychics work full-time. Being a psychic is not what they do 24/7. “Since there aren’t many places that hire full-time psychics, many of them work at completely unrelated jobs,” he says. This is true as some psychics have specific days where they see clients and give readings. It should be noted that being the best psychic in Oregon isn’t determined by whether a psychic channels energies on a full time or part time basis. Olson states that it the psychics that work around the clock helping people that cost more than those who don’t. The world we live revolves around money. Money is needed to survive. A full time psychic must charge a rate that will be able to cover basic living expenses, rent, food, clothing, etc. In order to be seen as the best psychic in Oregon, psychics need to take care of...

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Find the Best Psychic in California in the Psychic Online Directory

Posted by on Dec 18, 2014 in Best Psychic in California | 0 comments

Find the Best Psychic in California in the Psychic Online Directory

The world we live in can be a very unpredictable place to understand or even plan for. Uncertainty is what we live on. The phrase ‘you never know’ has become so common that living in the moment has become the norm. Being uncertain about where your life is going is something that you don’t have to spend sleepless nights doing. Eliminate the uncertainty by seeing a psychic. Finding the best psychic in California can be a challenge. Seeking the right channels to assist in guiding you to where fate is taking you is an option. One of the channels that are easily accessible is seeing a psychic. It is possible to find the best psychic in California. There is a lot of skepticism around seeing a psychic because many believe that seeing one is a rip off. Besides being seen as a scam artist, some psychics are seen as fakes. In order to be absolutely certain that the psychic you seek to visit is legit, you will need to do some research. Finding the best psychic in California may feel like looking for a needle in a haystack but it isn’t entirely impossible to locate one. Locating the best psychic in California is fairly easy to do. Highly regarded psychics and mediums in the California area can be found on the psychic directory. The directory can be found online. It features a number of psychics who have been practising successfully for years. Rest assured that when you log onto the directory, you will be introduced to a community that has the best psychic in California. On the psychic directory, you can be sure that the people you will find are principled. They aim to deliver messages to clients accurately, professionally and with integrity. These characteristics are what make the best psychic in California. There will definitely be no waffling or guessing games when you visit one of the psychics listed on the directory. These are some of the things that you should be on the lookout for when searching for the best psychic in California. The list of psychics compiled on the directory is set up by a former private investigator that has spent year’s studying the craft. You will be spoilt for choice on the directory. The number of psychics listed shouldn’t deter you from visiting just one because you can be sure of one thing that you will be sitting across the table with the best psychic in...

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Not a Free Reading Psychic

Posted by on Dec 15, 2014 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Not a Free Reading Psychic

Why would a psychic give a free reading? I have no idea. But, I don’t. One, I know that many believe a psychic, because they are in a service arena, and because they can help people, should offer free advice. They confuse service with servitude. I’m not a free reading psychic. Two, you get what you pay for. Most accomplished, the best psychics, will not give free readings. Some may do so for a viable trade. But none should be expected to do so for any reason. I’m sure that you wouldn’t want to go to work and put in your hours and expect not to be paid for it. If you’re a CPA, would you do my tax return for free? If you were a doctor, would you examine me for free? I get telephone calls periodically from strangers who request a free question. They want to test drive the psychic and get a free reading under the disguise of wanting a guarantee their money would be well spent. Okay! And I want to sample a gourmet meal and then decide if I’ll order and pay for all of it. Wanting a free reading from a psychic is not unlike seeking free medical advice from a trained medical professional. It’s just that the metaphysical arena is unregulated, It’s easy to confuse those without scruples that give us a black eye, with giving away freebies. The best advisors have years of training, both metaphysical and interpersonal, along with counseling and behavioral assessment skills. They combine education and experience with their abilities and are no different that highly educated professionals. Three, free advice is always ignored. You listen to know one. Not your spouse, friends, neighbors or co-workers. You make up your own mind. The best advice falls fallow while the free advice, even if its accurate, blows by you like the wind. Free has no value in our society. If someone offers you a free psychic reading, run the other...

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Do You Dream or Scheme?

Posted by on Dec 15, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Breakthroughs, Goals, Making Changes | 0 comments

Do You Dream or Scheme?

Carol was in my office the other day, talking once again about the dress shop she dreamed of opening. Carol, a mythical name, comes once a month to talk about how unhappy she is, and more importantly, to dream. I asked her if she was dreaming or scheming about the shop. She laughed. Then sighed. “Dream… at the moment…” It was a dream because she hasn’t taken the trouble to work out any steps toward her goal. She’s been talking about it for over a year. I challenged her to stop dreaming. It was wasting her time. She disappeared for a month, then came back, and now we work together to turn her dream into a scheme. She’s creating a step-by-step plan to open her shop. Can you distinguish between your dreams and schemes? Dreams only come true if you turn them into schemes. Can you accomplish your schemes? Yes, you can with action. Thoughts begin the process, but if it all stays up in your head, they’ll stay their. Thoughts begin the process. The Universe provides opportunities to act on your thoughts, but you must take the action to make those opportunities real in the material world. The miracles are in the opportunities, the pay off is in your actions. Can you describe in detail what you imagine life will be like, minute to minute, day to day, once you have your dream partner, the business you want, the income you want, and landed the deal to write that bestseller? If not, you’re dreaming. Start scheming. Begin with thinking in detail about that future life now. Pretend you’ve achieved that goal you’ve been dreaming about for so long. What have you been imagining life would be like, every day, once these goals had been realized? Factor in the all-round sustainable life. Even when you’ve achieved your dreams, some aspects of life will still be there. Money and materialism won’t make you happier or healthier over and above a certain point. And that point isn’t that high. Then, write the history of how you got there. Actually write it down, backwards, step by step. When you do, you have created your blueprint, your roadmap to success, as it unfolded. Now, all you have to do is start at the beginning, the now point, and follow it a step at a time. And, factor in your need to be stretched and challenged. Your need for meaning through working toward a success goal is still going to need to be met once you’ve become successful. Dreams come true when you take the action steps, blessed by the Universe. It’s the combination of dreaming and scheming that makes things happen. Dream, then scheme your way to...

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Stopping Those Pesky Expectations

Posted by on Dec 9, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Berkeley Psychic, Breakthroughs, Free Relationship Advice, Kindness, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA, Relationship Help | 0 comments

Stopping Those Pesky Expectations

Who had a houseful of holiday guests this last week? Who almost went off like a pressure cooker? Who blew an emotional fuse? Did your expectations get met, deflated or exceeded? Are you emotionally exhausted? The holidays are supposed to be a fun, joyous series of occasions. They get ruined with baseless expectations. Expectations are set ideas about what the outcome of a situation should be. They are inaccurate more often than not, and holding on tightly to these ideas can cause a lot of anxiety and pain. One problem that arises from having rigid ideas of how things should turn out is that life very rarely follows the scripts you create in your head. Clinging to a belief that there is only one acceptable outcome not only sets you up for a great deal of potential disappointment, but creates tension and struggle. When you refuse to release your expectations of how things should be, you’re refusing to go with the flow of life. This often results in trying to control events, which is futile and exhausting. By holding too tightly to expectancy, or being too set on an exact outcome, you often influence your own behavior in ways that aren’t helpful or healthy. You may either push yourself to fulfill your goals in an obsessive or short-sighted manner, or you may become paralyzed by the fear that you’ll somehow mess up our desired outcome, and feel unable to take action at all. Start changing the painful scenario by unsetting your heart on something. Having a heart that is set on a goal implies a rigid feeling and approach. Like being set in your ways, there is very little space for flow, freedom, or spontaneity when your heart is set. There is nothing wrong with having goals and dreams. Life would become somewhat aimless without hopes and aspirations. What is potentially unhealthy though, is an obsession with the idea that there is only one very narrow path that can lead to your fulfillment, and that you know exactly, in the minutest detail, what that final destination must be like. Holding on to expectations can also cause you to close your mind to potentially fulfilling opportunities, simply because those opportunities do not follow the exact formula you believe they should follow. Letting go of expectations can be difficult. Most of us have been conditioned since childhood to grasp hold of goals and ideals, and to never let go. What we need to understand is that we can keep our dreams, but let go of the rigid ideas of how those dreams can come true. By learning to release your grip on how you believe things should be, you can begin to enjoy how things really are, and open your mind to the myriad of possibilities that exist in life. Dream big and dream wide. Don’t narrow your chances for happiness to one in a million, or even one in a hundred. Trade your expectations for explorations, and discover that there are a multitude of different ways that you can be happy and fulfilled in...

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What Exactly is a Psychic?

Posted by on Dec 9, 2014 in Psychic Medium Walnut Creek CA, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA | 0 comments

What Exactly is a Psychic?

There’s a lot of confusion about what a psychic is and does. What’s the difference between a psychic, a medium? What are the various differences between the types of extra abilities? A psychic is someone who can pick up information from various different sources. A psychic, is like a human satellite dish. Through additional abilities other than the five human senses, they are able to perceive information in the energy of the collective unconscious. You have heard that we are all connected. It’s that energetic connection through our spirits that connects us on that energetic plane into what psychologists have called the collective unconscious. Everyone can tap into it. Psychics have learned how to do so. You tap into people energetically whether you’re aware of it or not. Yes, there is emotion involved, but spiritually you’re pure energy, as a radiant being of light. Everyone is. Thoughts are energy and move at lightning-like speed. When you connect to another person, you’re connecting to their energy, soul, and spirit. And, you connect with their thoughts. One, a good psychic will never tell you what to do. They’ll offer you information, options and potential consequences of actions you could decide to take. Two, they’ll look at possibilities, probabilities, and outcomes. They’ll be your Schrodinger’s Cat of the spiritual world. They’ll illuminate the possible outcomes for the questions you have, once you open the metaphorical box, but no reputable psychic will tell you what to do. Most professional psychics take information and put it through their own, personal experiences, and interpret it through their human filters. They interpret information based upon their own human judgments. The handful of psychics that are top pros, describe what they pick up, not interpret it for you. These psychics, which are a real find, can see layers of information, move through it avoiding their own limitations, and present it to you in a neutral, informational format. For example, if they see a long, cylindrical yellow object, they’ll describe it rather than call it a banana. For you, it may have meaning as a piece of macaroni, or yellow wire, not a banana. Interpreting it as a banana for you is doing you a grave disservice and negatively affects the guidance you receive. Good psychics are similar to satellite dish receivers in that they’ll describe what they see, instead of interpreting it. They also work like human microscopes. They can zoom into multiple levels of information, and pick out details, not just one piece of the puzzle, for insight. Since the human experience is complex, like a multi-faceted gem, a good advisor can metaphorically rotate the gem and see what’s going on within the different facets of a client’s...

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The Miracle of You

Posted by on Dec 1, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Breakthroughs, Kindness, Making Changes, The Best Psychic in San Francisco, Walnut Creek Medium, Walnut Creek Psychic | 0 comments

The Miracle of You

There are two ways to live. You can live as if nothing is a miracle or you can live as if everything is a miracle. ~Albert Einstein It’s been easy to get caught up in the mundane aspects of life after anticipating the Holiday of this past week. Now that the guests are gone, it’s back to routine tasks. In doing so, you may fail to notice the miracles all around you. You may even fail to notice the biggest miracle of all, you. Finding the miracles to celebrate daily is a choice. You choose to see them. The key to finding miracles is simply to look. Deliberately and consciously take your attention off what’s wrong with the world or with your life, and look at what’s right. Decide you will look for the wonder in everything, rather than wondering why you feel so blah about life. Did you see it? The quiet of an early morning. The cat sleeping. The children eating breakfast. The rain outside. Your hand as you reached for a coffee mug. If you start thinking and behaving as if everything is a miracle, it becomes a miracle. And, life is easier, gentler, happier, and inspiring. Look at the world today from a fresh perspective. Everything is a miracle. You’re a miracle just because you’re alive. Have you noticed how you’re energy has changed since you’ve been reading this? It’s not a joke. You are your thoughts. Why not make them positive, uplifting and miraculous? You can, instantly. Your thoughts are like a tiny seed that can grow into a great big tree. The reason that many of you don’t reach your full potential, and fulfill your destiny is because you don’t let yourself. In this season of Holiday Festivities, I invite you to let yourself see the miracle in being you. All you need to do is to still your rational mind, and tune into your intuition. Time spent in quiet reflection can benefit every area of your life. Greater mental calm not only provides the opportunity to be inspired, it also improves well-being, productivity, relationships, and practically anything else you can think of. Wherever you find your inspiration, creating anything you want in your life always begins with a choice. Choose to embrace the miracle of life you are and to look for the magic in everything, and it will become easier to be filled with joy and...

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Shock Somebody Today: Do the Unexpected

Posted by on Nov 24, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Berkeley Psychic, Free Relationship Advice, Kindness, Psychic San Francisco | 0 comments

Shock Somebody Today: Do the Unexpected

In this season of gratitude, it’s time to shake up the energies around you. It’s time shock a few people with the unexpected gesture of gratitude. Gratitude is easy to express when it aimed at something we cherish or appreciate. It’s easy to be grateful for a beautiful rose bloom, its challenging to be grateful for a piece of garbage. Both, however, have their place in this world. Today, start by offering your significant other, the unexpected little gesture such as a hand on the shoulder or a touch of their ear. If you’ve been in conflict, shock them and tell them right now how you appreciate them. The conflict melts away with pure gratitude. What about that coworker that’s been undermining you? Walk by them today, smile warming, and tell them how much you appreciate them being on the team. Tell them you appreciate their effort and hard work. Shock ‘em. Move on to that friend of yours that turned gossip the last two months. Call her up, and tell her how much you have appreciated her for all she has brought you. Shock her. People show up in your life to highlight for you, your issues. Yes, even the contentious ones are there as cleverly disguised gifts from Spirit. They are here to act as mirrors for you as they assist in bubbling up your issues to the surface of your life. How precious is that? How wonderful that they have spiritually volunteered to be a catalyst for your growth. Be grateful for them. They are more valuable at times than those in your life you love. In Huna, there is a meditative process called Nalu. When performing Nalu, you concentrate on something and find the unique beauty in it. Usually, it’s an object of some sort, and one that you find visually attractive or beautiful. You sit and gaze at the object in new and deeper ways than you have previously, to pull out the inherent beauty in it unforeseen until now. It’s a deep, appreciative process. It becomes even more impactful when you gaze at a cigarette butt and pull out its inherent beauty, too. If you can successfully see the inherent beauty and spiritual messages in a piece of garbage, you can feel gratitude to the fullest degree. Shock someone today with the unexpected energy and emotion of gratitude. You’ll make them feel wonderful. Most importantly, you raise your own vibration. Gratitude engulfs negativity and transmutes it to a higher level of vibration. Discourse dissolves away. The energy changes to a higher state. And, you elevate your frequency. Finally, shock yourself. Do something today, right now, which honors you. Show the highest form of gratitude for yourself. Get small token of appreciation for you, such as a special cup or tea or chocolate truffle. If nothing else, take a moment and feel deep gratitude you are here, right now, on this...

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How To Stay Grounded in a Crazy Metaphysical World

Posted by on Nov 17, 2014 in Bay Area Psychic, Berkeley Psychic, Breakthroughs, Kindness, Psychic Medium Walnut Creek CA, Psychic San Francisco, Psychic Walnut Creek CA, The Best Psychic in San Francisco | 0 comments

How To Stay Grounded in a Crazy Metaphysical World

There’s drama in Andaraland. I was on the phone last night with a friend who is caught in the latest “who has the real Andaras?” drama as it unfolds. People made promises to keep information secret and blabbed like squealing piglets. There’s drama in Journeyland. The dust from rearranging my Shasta Journeys and creating a new Team to support the vision, continues to play out like a rerun of Dallas. Apparently J.R. feels spurned. There’s drama in Metaphysicaland. A colleague imploded in the worst way possible, affecting many people. The sadness is palpable. Who cares who has the most real Andaras? Who cares how many people enjoy Mt. Shasta? And yes, the metaphysical community needs a major overhaul. Some people, traditions, methods and ideas have to go. I was pondering all this to a heavy degree, and my role in it all, when a single, unplanned, random, act of kindness saved me. To paraphrase her writing: a friend of mine found herself at the grocery store, behind a young woman at the checkout. There were payment issues. The woman attempted to pay with a credit card and it was declined. She used a debit card, and it was declined. She switched to her food stamp card and, it was declined. The woman’s cart had simplest of staples such milk, bread, cereal for a child, and a few other very minimalistic things. It was obvious that the young woman was incredibly embarrassed, and also a bit desperate. The cashier was trying to be as helpful as possible, but there was not a lot she could do. In the moment, my friend made the decision to go ahead and pay for the woman’s groceries. It was an early Christmas present. The woman looked startled, and then turned away. When she turned back, she had tears running down her face. They hugged each other warmly. She thanked my friend, patted away her tears, and left the store. End of story? No. It was my friend’s turn to check out, and she had 30 cans of cat food for the feral cats that she feeds. There was a woman behind her, who spoke very little English. She immediately came forward and offered her card for my friend’s groceries. She looked back at my and said in broken English , “I want to hug you, too”, and proceeded to do so. She was also crying. The simplest of kind gestures can mean the world to others. My friend felt like a million dollar person she is. She materially helped someone. Yet, that small gesture, in turn, helped me. It is now positively affecting the thousands of people I touch daily and weekly with my practice, blog and radio show. This act supersedes any goofiness I’ve experienced in the metaphysical community. Yes, the metaphysical world needs to be shaken up, shaken out, and a good part of it replaced with better, spiritual things. These spiritual things are just random acts of kindness, like what my colleague and friend, Shay Parker displayed this weekend. A single act of kindness can keep you and me, grounded, centered, re-energized and re-focused on what really matters in our metaphysical...

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