Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Are you struggling to decide whether to leave your partner or not?This question has been around since the beginning of time.  Not only can you ask it but you SHOULD be asking it if you are struggling with uncertainty in your relationship. Most everyone at one time or another asks this question.First, anything worth fighting for can be fixed!I always ask people to think back to what it was that attracted them to each other to begin with. In other words, what little nuances like, the way the other person smiled, or was easy to be with, or perhaps was kind to animals and strangers, or always offering to help out those in need.These types of personal and behavioral characteristics are what makes up the charm or charisma that you were most likely first drawn to upon the first encounters with your partner.Once into the grit and grind of daily life however, it is all too easy for us to lose site of what it was and is that we adored most about our lovers.So to the question of how to know if this is for real? Whether you’re dating, living together, or married for just several years or 50, the key to knowing if you’re in the right place is simple.The Number 1 question and answer:Do you respect the person you are sitting across from at the dinner table, or sleeping next to in bed at night?Answer this honestly and you will be gifted the insight you seek as to whether to stay or go.