Relationship Help

Stopping Those Pesky Expectations

Who had a houseful of holiday guests this last week? Who almost went off like a pressure cooker? Who blew an emotional fuse? Did your expectations get met, deflated or exceeded? Are you emotionally exhausted? The holidays are supposed to be a fun, joyous series of occasions. They get ruined with baseless expectations. Expectations are …

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Your Relationship Clock – What Time Is It?

I like to explain to clients, where their relationship is, using an analogy to a clock. If I can pick up the symbols Spirit is showing me, and describe them to clients, it’s much more effective than mere words. Spirit has been showing me time on the clock relative to couples and it explains things …

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Changing Your Relationship with a Dash of Wisdom

Changing Your Relationship with a Dash of Wisdom When is he going to change? When will this become more stable? When is she going to get it? The answers, in order are: Never Never (And the ever-so-succinct) Never As long as you focus is on them, it can never change or get better. Even engaging …

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Watering Tips for Your Relationship

Just like plants, relationships need gentle and consistent care: water, fertilizer, sunlight and air to the roots. Yes, your relationship needs to be nurtured so that it can grow and maintain its beauty. Never neglect it because it will wilt, die and eventually turn brown. Use these handy tips for maintaining a healthy “plant.”1. Water …

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Is Your Relationship Like A Crash Diet?

We used to talk every day! We would text each other for hours a day! It was intense, it was silly, it was exciting!  Now, he’s gone quiet. You hear from him every week or so. He never initiates contact. And, you just want things to go back to the way they were.Take a deep …

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Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Are you struggling to decide whether to leave your partner or not?This question has been around since the beginning of time.  Not only can you ask it but you SHOULD be asking it if you are struggling with uncertainty in your relationship. Most everyone at one time or another asks this question.First, anything worth fighting for …

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